When a Man Loves a Woman was an old song written by Calvin Lewis and Andrew Wright, and sung by a number of artists but done best Percy Sledge in my opinion. The lyrics speak on how the man will trade his whole world for the good he has found in finding this magnificent creature–the woman– his woman, his dream girl. So how can a woman stay her man’s dream girl?
Speaking from a man’s perspective, one thing that a woman can do to keep her man’s heart close to her is to make him feel safe to express himself. She should allow him to be vulnerable and human and express his fears, hurts, and pains.
There was a study done of men who cheated on their wives. When asked why did they cheated, over 40% said because their wives were not meeting their emotional needs! I can speak from experience; my wife has been my best friend my biggest supporter and loudest cheerleader. She holds my hand when I’m afraid! She wipes my tears away. I’ve had to put my head on HER shoulder, and so yes, she has my best interest at heart. There is a safety that men need feel to express his fears and shortcomings. He needs to have a no judgment zone where he will not get criticized for doing what society tells him is weak. When a woman sees this, and she becomes that place of emotional safety, the smart man will react and will do everything to keep that place of deep emotional security and solace, and a smart woman will help him do it!